Protective style

Protective style

Question time

Ask me anything thats on your mind and I will give you my gods honest truth and you can also get at me on facebook at Quinnesha lovesjordyn Washington and my twitter Quinneshathegod@twitter and my instagram at quinn513 ttys love u guys byeeee

Maybe its me

Ok now im sitting in class with my toddler she is in preschool so the first few days I get to sit with her and be in class with her ok now she goes to a mixed ethnic school there is white blacks and browns in here and I noticed two little black girls with natural hair besides my daughter but jordyns hair is in mega hairballs but the two other girls had twist outs I jusy thought that was sooooo cute and then I started to think the natural movement starts at birth im sure when these little girls grow up in to beautiful black young ladies there hair will be amazing strong healthier and just as long as it wanna be and im glad to see im not the only parent who took the natural hair movement to the youth hopefully this will follow my children's children's and there children's children's then soon the whole black nation of our future...one can only hope are maybe its just me. 

HAPPY FIRST DAY OF SCHOOL JORDYN MOMMY LOVES YOU.....

Do my fro offend you

Ok now I know im no beyonce are halie berry so why do I get blatant stares all the time. Like I can be just riding in the car and we stop at a red light all of a sudden I feel heat on my neck I slightly turnnto the right and boom some chick staring at me from the other car I mean she was getting her stare on she was looking so hard I thought she knew me . another time is last week or so me my husband and jordyn was grocery shopping and I had my big fro and black lipstick on as usual what I like to wear on a typical day. We in the snack section and boom I feel action on my neck once again and who is staring at me with a look of discuss a 5 year old white girl I mean she looked at me with a face that could just tear yo feelings apart the she proceed to stick her tongue at me im like boiling hot at this point so I just left it alone after a few choice words to my husband but my point is when I have a wig on or sew in I dont really get those types of looks now when I rock my natural I get looked at as if I am in the twilight episode when everybody was pigs and that girl was beautiful but everybody els thought she was ugly and weird causenshe was different then them yea thats how I feel when I wear my natural hair and you know what I dont care DO MY FRO OFFEND YOU???SO WHATT!!!!

KNOW YOUR ROLE GET THE TITLE

Ok ladies lets talk about family household. How to get ready to become a wife yes ladies I said the w word WIFE!!! we dont have to be  girlfriends and baby mommas and side chicks or quick one night stands we black women deserve to be a wife too.first you must start with loving yourself cause if you dont love yourself nobody will.you have to stop sleeping with every guy that shoots you a smile.you have to see yourself as priceless and nobody can just own a piece of you as if you are disposable. If a man wants you he has to have all of you mind body and soul for the rest of his life.you also have to kill that angry black woman mentality. Get the chip off your shoulder stop thinking the world ows you something stop thinking you dont need a man for nothing. If you continue to keep thinking this way then a man will treat you that way and soon you will be in your 40s all used up and lonely with a bad reputation for being weak and crazy hard to deal with. We dont want that we want a guy to see you and say thats a woman I wanna spend my life with.it took mena long long long time to figure out my worth and im glad I found it. I habe a daughter now and it would be ashame if she was to grow up with the old me and end up being the old me . before I found my husband or shall I say stalked my husband hahaha I was out in the world lost no direction sleeping on family sofas just got out of a bad relationship and got pregnant with another guy from a fling that was not post to last when I was 7 months pregnant I decided I no longer want to be this girl this lost gorl I wanted to be a woman I wanted to be someone my daughter can look up too.so I changed that day and since then its been on like popcorn I stop being so willing I stoo being so loud I stop being so childish. I had a lot of growing up to do and I did it so I know anybody can change just like me. I had to let a lot of friends go men and women because if you wanna change yourself for the better you have to leave them old friends behind.and it will be hard they will start to turn on you talk about you make you feel like you aint s##t and that you aint gonna be nothing o they like to throw your past in your face dont get discouraged thats just the devil trying to bring you down. Now back to getting a husband look at all the men that have ever broke your heart now one you identify there personality STAY AWAY FROM THOSE TYPE OF MEN!!!! if thats what you been attracted to then thats not the man for you what you wanna find is a man to complement the new you.learn to be humble and let him be the man you dont always have to be so abrasives men want a soft spoken woman not a woman just as rough as him.learn to forgive yourself and others from your pass and you will have a wonderful relationship with the new guy in your life.you ever heard that destinys child song cater to you thats what you wanna be to your mate and if you play your cards right then BOOM!!!! wedding bells so basically im saying play your womanly role and you will have that wife title. Trust me I am the testimony...

Motivational music for you on your natural journey ladies enjoy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E_5jIt0f5Z4&feature=youtube_gdata_player