Ok ladies lets talk about family household. How to get ready to become a wife yes ladies I said the w word WIFE!!! we dont have to be girlfriends and baby mommas and side chicks or quick one night stands we black women deserve to be a wife too.first you must start with loving yourself cause if you dont love yourself nobody will.you have to stop sleeping with every guy that shoots you a smile.you have to see yourself as priceless and nobody can just own a piece of you as if you are disposable. If a man wants you he has to have all of you mind body and soul for the rest of his life.you also have to kill that angry black woman mentality. Get the chip off your shoulder stop thinking the world ows you something stop thinking you dont need a man for nothing. If you continue to keep thinking this way then a man will treat you that way and soon you will be in your 40s all used up and lonely with a bad reputation for being weak and crazy hard to deal with. We dont want that we want a guy to see you and say thats a woman I wanna spend my life with.it took mena long long long time to figure out my worth and im glad I found it. I habe a daughter now and it would be ashame if she was to grow up with the old me and end up being the old me . before I found my husband or shall I say stalked my husband hahaha I was out in the world lost no direction sleeping on family sofas just got out of a bad relationship and got pregnant with another guy from a fling that was not post to last when I was 7 months pregnant I decided I no longer want to be this girl this lost gorl I wanted to be a woman I wanted to be someone my daughter can look up too.so I changed that day and since then its been on like popcorn I stop being so willing I stoo being so loud I stop being so childish. I had a lot of growing up to do and I did it so I know anybody can change just like me. I had to let a lot of friends go men and women because if you wanna change yourself for the better you have to leave them old friends behind.and it will be hard they will start to turn on you talk about you make you feel like you aint s##t and that you aint gonna be nothing o they like to throw your past in your face dont get discouraged thats just the devil trying to bring you down. Now back to getting a husband look at all the men that have ever broke your heart now one you identify there personality STAY AWAY FROM THOSE TYPE OF MEN!!!! if thats what you been attracted to then thats not the man for you what you wanna find is a man to complement the new you.learn to be humble and let him be the man you dont always have to be so abrasives men want a soft spoken woman not a woman just as rough as him.learn to forgive yourself and others from your pass and you will have a wonderful relationship with the new guy in your life.you ever heard that destinys child song cater to you thats what you wanna be to your mate and if you play your cards right then BOOM!!!! wedding bells so basically im saying play your womanly role and you will have that wife title. Trust me I am the testimony...
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